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Steps to Daily Success: Using Motivational and Inspirational Quotes to Achieve
Your Goals
by Ray Schiel
Changing our day-to-day behaviors
may be easier than previously imagined. By meditating on and repeating
motivational and inspirational quotes, we are better prepared to change our
thought patterns, behaviors and in turn, change our lives.
Here's how it's done.
If we believe something to be easy, we find little, if any struggle in
accomplishing it. However, if we imagine something to be difficult to
accomplish, then our struggle becomes more apparent. In fact, if we imagine that
it is difficult to change a specific behavior, then we will always find
experiences that will justify that belief.
Take this for example. We wake up one morning and decide that:
"This is the day I start losing weight. When things get difficult, I will not
reach for junk food, but instead I will focus on something else to keep my mind
occupied. It'll be tough at first, but I'm going to give it a try."
If you continue with this thought pattern and belief, don't be surprised to find
yourself struggling more often than not. Why?
If we look at this example closely we find a couple of thought patterns and
beliefs already in place. We have determined to do something good for ourselves,
but we do ourselves a disservice by choosing certain negative thought patterns,
beliefs and words that go along with it.
We have said,
"When things get difficult...." (This is already assuming that there will be
difficult moments! Strike one!)
"It'll be tough at first..." (This is already assuming it will be difficult at
first! Strike two!)
"...but I'm going to give it a try." (Remember the movie "The Karate
Kid"..."Theirs is no "try", there is only "do". Strike three!)
Now there are hundreds of products out there that will assist people in losing
weight. Some, if not all of them, may work for various people at various stages
of their goal. But for many people who have convinced themselves that losing
weight is difficult, some products may fall short when our thought patterns are
stronger than our desire to change.
Here is something that I've done to change a behavior I no longer desired.
I recently lost 20lbs in about 12 weeks. I didn't like the way I looked, felt or
even thought for that matter. I needed to change and take some action towards
it.
First, I realized that I had to change my way of thinking about losing weight.
My old thought patterns were no longer working for me. My thoughts were like
little tiny pictures that I projected in my mind of how heavy I was. I no longer
wanted these pictures or thought patterns a part of my life. I had to choose a
thought pattern and belief that would be easier to think about.
I chose this thought,
"Losing weight is easier than I thought."
Perhaps not the most ideal for everyone but it worked for me.
Secondly, I chose a word I wanted to focus on for that day, week or month to
help me in accomplishing my goal (Start with just a day, or just an hour for
that matter. Keep it simple.) The word I chose needed to be in relation to the
change I want to make. For example, I chose the word "FOCUS", as I felt that
that's what I needed to think about most of time; focusing more on losing weight
than gaining it. Choose any word as long as it relates to your situation.
(Attitude, Energy, Action, Believe...)
Following that, I scoured the Internet for motivational and inspirational quotes
that resonated within me that related to that specific word I chose. Quotes that
I could remember, especially ones that really spoke to what I wanted to
accomplish.
But here's the most important part.
I needed quotes that were powerful enough to change my thought patterns the
moment I read them. Quotes that REALLY spoke to me when I my eyes fell upon
them. Quotes that forced me to pause and think for a moment. Quotes that had
that extra "edge" where my mind said, "Yes. This is one."
These are all signs of a quote that held power for me. I "focused" in on the
following quotes.
"All that we are is the result of what we have thought." Buddha
"The only way to discover the limits of the possible, is to go beyond them into
them impossible." Arthur C. Clarke
"It's not what you achieve in the end that matters, it's who you become in the
process." Author Unknown
In fact, I found dozens of quotes that I resorted to from time to time, but
these three I always came back to. They spoke of who I was, what I wanted to
accomplish and who I wanted to become as I worked towards my goal.
I wrote them down. I carried these quotes with me constantly. I read them and
meditated on them whenever I had the opportunity to. At work, home or at the gym
(yup, I finally got myself to exercise, primarily by focusing on Arthur C.
Clarke's quote!), I focused on these three powerful quotes to help me FOCUS on
what I wanted.
Because I changed my thought patterns, over time, I can honestly say I am 20 lbs
lighter and a whole lot happier. Yes, more was involved than just thinking but
it all began with my thoughts. The thoughts then permeated into my actions. (Now
I need to FOCUS on maintaining that weight, so for me a whole new thought
pattern begins.)
Here are the three steps again:
1. Decided to change your way of thinking about a behavior, making it easier for
you to think about it. Phrase it in a simple way.
2. Choose a word to focus on to change that behavior for a period of time.
3. Find a minimum of three motivational or inspirational quotes related to that
specific word that are powerful enough to change your current thought patterns
the moment you read them. Meditate on them and repeat them, silently or out
loud, every chance you get.
Be patient. Stick with it. Give it some time.
Why do you think companies offer a 30-day money back guarantee? They know that
if you do something for 30 days it becomes a habit and you no longer need to
return it! (Learned something, huh?) Give it time.
The first step to what you want to accomplish is changing your mind and the
thought patterns and beliefs associated with your behavior. Thoughts are the
precursor to action, meaning that thoughts occur before any action takes place.
That's what needs to be changed first. Your thoughts.
It worked for me and I hope this inspires and motivates you to achieve your
goal.
Think positive.
Ray Schiel http://www.cafepress.com/positivethinkin
About the Author:
Ray Schiel is a freelance Sales
Trainer and owner of Positive Thinkin'!, an online gift shop offering various
motivational and inspirational products for the home, gym and office.
http://www.cafepress.com/positivethinkin
. He can be contacted at
positivethinkin7@yahoo.com .
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